Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Graciously Discreet

It is well with the man who is gracious and lends; he will maintain his cause in judgment. Psalm 112:5 

This passage in Psalm 112 is a wonderful description of a righteous man...or woman. He is blessed because he has respect (fear of) for the Lord. Maybe it is because he is blessed that he can help others—graciously lending them something from his resources…his money, belongings, knowledge or time. Being gracious about lending someone something is good for both the lender and the borrower. If the lender makes a big deal about lending something, then it will make the borrower uncomfortable. When the lender is gracious, the borrower can feel respected and valued. Jesus gave us principles for lending…but love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for He Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men. Luke 6:35. Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you. Matthew 5:42. Are you a gracious lender discreetly allowing someone to borrow something from you? The point here is not really about lending or borrowing, but about being graciously discreet. Not calling attention to other’s needs, but meeting them in a respectful way. 

Training Tip – I don’t know of any instance that someone borrowed something from Jesus, but He certainly generously and graciously gave of His time, knowledge and energy. Children need to be told not to repeat private matters and to listen to their parents. My son, give attention to my wisdom, incline your ear to my understanding; that you may observe discretion and your lips may reserve knowledge. Proverbs 5:1-2. Proverbs teaches a lot about wisdom. Read some verses to your family everyday from Proverbs. If you read an entire chapter a day, you’ll read through the book in one month. I know of a couple who for years read through the Proverbs day by day. They were a very wise, wonderful Christian couple. I think I’ll start reading through Proverbs again on August 1st—how about you? Will you join me in a challenge to Read Proverbs Through in August?

Lord God, I am giving You my attention. Please give me wisdom and understanding that I would be discreet and gracious to those around me in need—especially in spiritual need.

All scripture quoted from the New American Standard Bible (NASB) unless otherwise noted.
© 2013 by Mickey M. Hunacek. All rights reserved.

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