Friday, May 17, 2013

May 17 – Enduring Discipline

It is for discipline that you endure; God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline? ... All discipline for the moment seems not to be joyful, but sorrowful; yet to those who have been trained by it, afterwards it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness. Hebrews 12:7, 11

Discipline is as essential part of life—whether it is self imposed or done by some higher authority…parents, teachers, government officials, or God. Self control is part of self discipline. That is something that we want to instill in our children or grandchildren—but first we have to have it in ourselves. The verse above should encourage and give us hope. God only disciplines those who He considers “sons”—and daughters. And although discipline isn’t always pleasant, it is necessary and will develop in us and our children a better character and give us that peace of God that makes life worth living.

Training Tip – A wise son accepts his father's discipline, but a scoffer does not listen to rebuke. Proverbs 13:1. Did you accept your parents’ discipline with respect and honor to them? Maybe you need to have a discussion about respect with your parents if they are still living? Your children need to see that you respect your parents. By example, once again, they will see that you are worthy of their respect. Children tend to love their parents, no matter what—even in cases of abuse—but respect is an element that more difficult to achieve in the parent-child relationship. It is worth your efforts to respect your children—and expect them to respect you and your spouse. You must teach them to respect their mother/father and require that they show respect. One example of this is to have them thank their mother for the meal that she has prepared—verbally and with a hug. It is a great way to end a meal. A final prayer of thanksgiving to the Lord is also a custom that is worthy of our attention. It is not common, but it is a Jewish custom that we would do well to emulate. Consider adding it to your next meal. 

Lord God, help parents not to provoke their children to anger, but help them to raise their children in your discipline and instruction, as you taught in Ephesians 6:4.

Friday’s Feast at the Lord’s Table
A TV program, “Dives, Diners and Drive-ins” featured a restaurant in Summerville, SC, Perfectly Franks. I had a chance to actually go there when visiting family nearby and discovered a really great place for unusual hot dogs. Their menu included one that my grandchildren just loved: Elvis—with banana, with melted peanut butter and honey, topped with crumpled bacon. I had the Aretha Franklin hot dog with BBQ pulled pork, coleslaw and crispy onion on the dog. Yum! My favorite foods. They had a huge selection (29) of specialties dogs with a variety of toppings—a few of which are described below:
            Frank Legare - smoked sausage, cocktail sauce, grilled shrimp, and sweet-corn relish
            Franky Luv – coleslaw, Dr. Pepper BBQ sauce and crispy onions
            Frank Cuda - chili, cheese, blue cheese slaw, bacon, and crispy onions
            Frank Chicago - Relish, sauerkraut, mustard, hot peppers, mustard, celery salt and tomato slices
            Frank Morgan – creamy macaroni and cheese sauce
            French Toast Frank – scrambled eggs and bacon over a French Toasted bun
            Franko Columbo – grilled onions, black peppered bacon, and bleu cheese crumbles
            Frank Lloyd Wright – sauerkraut, drizzled with spicy yellow mustard
            Franklin Roosevelt – mustard, onion, relish
            Frankie Vali - fried spinach, Caesar dressing, bacon and crispy onion.
We tried to duplicate a few of these at home—and found it to be a great group activity to let everyone top their own grilled hot dogs with a variety of toppings. Nothing beats the experience of Perfectly Franks with their sweet potato fries, beverage bar and local art displayed on the walls, but for an unusually fun evening with family or friends try creating your own loaded hot dogs served at home with some sweet iced tea and favorite sodas.  

The grandkids asked if we’d eat in heaven—and who would cook the food? I’m sure we’ll enjoy feasts fit for the King and His family. Whether it is heavenly manna or loaded hot dogs it will be a Banquet With The King.

All scripture quoted from the New American Standard Bible (NASB) unless otherwise noted.
© 2013 by Mickey M. Hunacek. All rights reserved.

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