Monday, October 29, 2018

Has Your Friend Betrayed You?


It is not an enemy who taunts me—I could bear that. It is not my foes who so arrogantly insult me—I could have hidden from them. Instead, it is you—my equal, my companion and close friend. ... As for my companion, he betrayed his friends; he broke his promises. His words are as smooth as butter, but in his heart is war. His words are as soothing as lotion, but underneath are daggers! Psalm 55:12-13, 20-21

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David had a lot of grief in his life. Some of his struggles stemmed from lustful decisions he made…but other problems were not of his choosing…like this betrayal by his friend. Do you ever feel like your friends have betrayed you? That is not something I’ve had to deal with…maybe a friend has ignored me…or ridiculed or rejected an idea I thought was great—but not betrayed me—or broke promises. I think that has to do with choosing friends carefully. My friends don’t have daggers hidden in their words like David’s friend in this scripture. He is obviously overwhelmed with his troubles as he cries out to God. A new friend of mine is inundated with a series of situations that would have most people knee deep in tears—but she is taking it day by day to the Lord…and trying to stay positive even though like Job she’s lost most everything she has. She feels betrayed by family, friends and society.
Please listen and answer me, for I am overwhelmed by my troubles. Psalm 55:2

This must have been a really meaningful companion as David tells us that he enjoyed such a great fellowship with his friend. They were tabernacle…church…friends. They went to the house of the Lord together. Those are the ones you feel you can trust...who won't betray you. 
What good fellowship we once enjoyed as we walked together to the house of God. Psalm 55:14
We can assume that David recovered from this betrayal since he continued to be king and reign over Israel, but betrayal by a friend like this is deeply felt and not easily forgotten. Can you forgive a friend for betraying you?

Prayer ~ Lord God—forgive me as I have forgiven others for even small offenses. Thank you for forgiving me for my mistakes, bad attitudes and just plain sin shrouded in disobedience.

Daily Bible Reading: John 11

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