Saturday, September 17, 2016

Rejecting Advice


The leaders of Israel summoned him, and Jeroboam and the whole assembly of Israel went to speak with Rehoboam. "Your father was a hard master," they said. "Lighten the harsh labor demands and heavy taxes that your father imposed on us. Then we will be your loyal subjects." Rehoboam replied, "Give me three days to think this over. Then come back for my answer." So the people went away. Then King Rehoboam discussed the matter with the older men who had counseled his father, Solomon. "What is your advice?" he asked. "How should I answer these people?" The older counselors replied, "If you are willing to be a servant to these people today and give them a favorable answer, they will always be your loyal subjects." But Rehoboam rejected the advice of the older men and instead asked the opinion of the young men who had grown up with him and were now his advisers. "What is your advice?" he asked them. "How should I answer these people who want me to lighten the burdens imposed by my father?" The young men replied, "This is what you should tell those complainers who want a lighter burden: 'My little finger is thicker than my father's waist! Yes, my father laid heavy burdens on you, but I'm going to make them even heavier! My father beat you with whips, but I will beat you with scorpions!'" Three days later Jeroboam and all the people returned to hear Rehoboam's decision, just as the king had ordered. But Rehoboam spoke harshly to the people, for he rejected the advice of the older counselors. 1 Kings 12:3-13



How often do you ask others for advice and then reject their advice? I’ve found myself asking for suggestions from family and friends about home remodeling projects—but then not taking their advice. So far we’re only replacing doors—we haven’t started the really big bathroom remodeling. When it comes down to it will my husband and I reject others’ advice? Not quite the same as Rehoboam rejecting his advisors’ guidance, but similar. When we don’t listen to others are we not listening to God either? What advice or instruction have you received from God lately? Some things that we hear over and over are to love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength, as well as to love your neighbor as yourself. These are commands from God…not just suggestions. Do we totally, wholeheartedly do 
those? What about other advice? What did you read in God’s word today that you can think about…meditate on later in the day…that you can apply to your life? How will you use that scripture to direct your thoughts, words and actions in a way that is of service and pleasing to the Lord? Isn’t that what life is all about—serving God and others? One thing I’m convinced of is that life is not about being entertained—it is about relationships. In relationships we share and learn from each other. We build bridges. We consider others’ advice. Seek God’s wisdom in choosing which advice to follow. Hmmm…what is He telling us about our bathroom remodeling? How about you—your projects and your struggles? Are you allowing God to provide advice and guidance?



Prayer ~Lord, give us wisdom to follow Your advice first and foremost in our lives. Guide us with Your Word that we would make good choices for ourselves and with our families and friends.



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