Read Proverbs
2:1-5. Read the whole chapter if you have time. Those first few verses deal
with seeking discernment and understanding. Do you think that Jesus ever had to
cry to His Heavenly Father for discernment? I would like to think that as God
Himself, creator of everything, Jesus never had to ask His Father for anything…but
He did ask for blessings—for food, for healing, and even for resurrection of others.
Whining was not part of Jesus’ prayers. Cry out for discernment and
understanding would not be advantageously approached with a whining voice. No
one wants to listen to whining. God listened to His Son’s requests. That is how
we should be with our families…listening. School age children need to have time
with one or both parents for a few minutes alone every day. I loved how Susanna
Wesley spent time daily, not only in her own private devotions, but with each
of her ten children. She actually had 19 children, but only ten survived.
During that time she listened as well as instructed her children. Listening is
a key in communication—and good communication is essential to any good
relationship. Have you listened to others today? Your spouse, children, friends,
coworkers, employer, or even to God?
Training Tip – Set aside a few minutes today…and every day…to
listen to your children. Ask them open ended questions…not those they can
answer using just “yes or no”. What was the most interesting thing that
happened in school today? Not…what did you do in school today? That is too
general and usually will result in an answer of “nothing.” Encourage them to
open up and share their feelings…How did you feel when…? If you could do something
differently today, what would it be? As they share their day, let them know
that you are on their side…don’t expect them to be happy all the time—do sympathize
with them when they’ve had a rough day. Don’t put down their feelings by saying,
“Don’t be a baby.” Do encourage their good character traits and give them
suggestions on how to handle sticky situations at school. Continue to model
good behavior for them.
Lord – Teach me, my children and grandchildren good
discernment and knowledge, for we believe in Your commandments. Psalms 119:66
All
scripture quoted from the New American Standard Bible (NASB) unless otherwise
noted.
© 2013 by Mickey
M. Hunacek. All rights reserved.
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