Friday, August 1, 2025

Welcome August – Begin a New Month – Time to Begin a New Habit?

We’ve all heard that it takes 21 days to form a new habit. Time to shed an old habit—and take up a new one. The beginning of a month is always a good starting point. What old habit would you like to trade in for a new one? I’m sure you are long past the nail biting or foot shaking kid type habit. A couple of years ago I blogged about a challenge. That is one way to change a habit.

Imagine yourself sitting around a big table—reclining as they did in Jesus’ time—and feasting at a meal with other Christians. Please pass the hummus…and the pita bread. Would you like more water, wine, or tea? Laughter. Smiles. A joyous meal. Tomorrow, come to my house. I’m cooking up some lentil soup. It will be a tasty meal. Did you hear that the gentleman across the street just accepted Jesus as his Savior? Ah. Here he is now—and he has his wife and son with him. Praise God! Our fellowship is growing.

Building relationships is the key to a growing fellowship. Those relationships with others and with God depend on spending time together—just as the early Christians did. Time of worshipping, studying the scriptures, fellowshipping, sharing meals, and generously giving to others. If they needed clothes, food, or help with a project—I’m sure they shared with each other. Time together and shared resources bonds people to each other, socially and spiritually.

Time to intentionally
start new relationships...
with God and with others.


Think about your group of friends. Do you share meals, scripture, and fellowship? Actually, consider those with whom you want to be friends. A few years ago, I was at a ladies’ conference when the speaker, Lucy Luginbill, mentioned a book she had just read, “Friendships Don’t Just Happen” by Shasta Nelson who encouraged ladies, but it could apply to men as well, to intentionally establish circles of friends. Without the epidemic threat of isolation, we can now interact with people, real time and face to face, so we have that opportunity to establish new friendships. Those new companionships give them and us the possibility to do as Jesus taught…to love others as we love ourselves.  Start a new habit today intentionally building a relationship with God and with others in that God has brought into your midst. Then joyfully start new friendships like those in early Christian fellowship as Luke described in the book of Acts.

Twenty-one Day Challenge:

We aren’t to put money, or career, home, or even family before God. That may be a real challenge for some people.  So, I challenge you to put God first every day for twenty-one days. That’s the length of time it takes to change a habit. No better habit that to put God first in your life.  Intentionally develop a deeper friendship relationship with Him and with other Christians. Begin today and evaluate your progress on August 22nd

 

They worshiped together at the Temple each day, met in homes for the Lord's Supper, and shared their meals with great joy and generosity—all the while praising God and enjoying the goodwill of all the people. And each day the Lord added to their fellowship those who were being saved. Acts 2:46-47

 

Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm, for God can be trusted to keep his promise. Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do (or are in the habit of doing), but encourage one another, especially now that the day of his return is drawing near. Hebrews 10:23-25

 

Prayer – Lord, You were marvelous at creating friendships. It isn’t that easy for me…but I am willing to try. Then I think of the quote from Yoda…“Do or do not. There is no try.” Wise advice. Your advice also rings in my head…“Do unto others as you would have them do to you. (Matthew 7:12)” I think that includes making and keeping friends. Show me how to intentionally do that. You, Jesus, are the one that I most want to develop a closer, deeper relationship.

 

Meditate. Consider God’s guidance in scripture. Read God’s word and listen to what He is saying.

 

Verses of Salvation ~ But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. And since we have been made right in God's sight by the blood of Christ, he will certainly save us from God's condemnation. For since our friendship with God was restored by the death of his Son while we were still his enemies, we will certainly be saved through the life of his Son. So now we can rejoice in our wonderful new relationship with God because our Lord Jesus Christ has made us friends of God. Romans 5:8-11

 

Friday’s Feast at the King’s Table

Hummus
2 cups cooked garbanzo beans (start with 1 cup dried, soak and cook in 4 cups of water for at least three hours) OR 1 can garbanzo beans (15 oz.) drained, reserve liquid
1/4 cup tahini (sesame butter)
1 Tbsp olive oil
Juice of 1/2 lemon or about 2 Tbsp
6 cloves garlic, grated with microplane grater (or more if preferred, never too much garlic)
1 tsp sea salt

2 Tbsp horseradish (optional)
pepper to taste
paprika or fresh parsley to garnish

Chop garbanzos in food processor; blend in the rest of ingredients, including some of the reserved liquid until smooth and it reaches your desired consistency. This gets better with age, so prepare it a day before if you like. Pour into serving bowl & sprinkle with paprika or parsley. Serve with triangles of soft pita bread, crisp pita chips, sliced cucumber, carrots, celery, sliced fresh sweet pepper or sliced apples.

 

© 2025 Text, photos, and illustrations by Mickey M. Hunacek. All rights reserved.

Recycled portions from February 8, 2023 Banquet With The King blog

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